Aspire to be happy … not to have things.

Recently I have been doing a lot of reflecting.  Far more than ever before. And am realizing the monumental impact that other people’s reflections and societal expectations began to have on me.

When I say other people’s, I mean their reflections of themselves, of others around them, of what they judge to be valuable and what they judge to be successful.

I taught myself early that it was the happiness and simplicity of life was what I wanted.  I didn’t need a huge house, fancy cars, the best shoes, but I just needed to be happy with those around me, feel comfortable in my own skin, and be able to sit down, sit still, breathe deeply and appreciate where I am each day. Other people’s preferences and desires should not filter into this.  We are all impacted by our surroundings but you still have to be true to yourself and see what you want from this world.

I am not saying not to have life and work goals, but not to let those overcome you.

I want to make people smile.

I want to try new things all the time.

I want to look in a mirror and recognize the girl staring back at me.

I want to wake up with the windows open and feel the fresh air in the room.

I want to be at peace with who I have become so far.